As one of our patients explained to his wife, “Do you want your genetic child or our family, is only her to make a decision?”. When couples have tried so hard to build a family, all to no avail, they could be overwhelmed and emotionally broke, not to mention, financially bankrupt through the process. Still, all hope is not lost, you have options of using either a donor. Most times, people often have this mental picture in their head that –